Directory · 15 venues
Places around the world
Every listing covers the three things that actually decide whether your night works: what to wear, how the door reads you, and how to behave once you’re inside. No explicit imagery, no paid placements, and no venue has any say over what we write.
Amsterdam, Netherlands
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Club Church
Amsterdam's central fetish club, primarily gay-oriented, running a different themed night most evenings with dress codes to match.
- First time
- BDSM
- Latex & rubber
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Sameplace
A relaxed, deliberately women-friendly bar west of the centre with a dungeon downstairs — the least intimidating entry point in this guide.
- First time
- BDSM
- Bar & social
Barcelona, Spain
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Open Mind
A Barcelona club with a genuinely enforced dress code — one of the stricter doors in a city whose scene is otherwise fairly relaxed.
- First time
- Strict door
- Couple
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Rosas 5
A long-established Barcelona club combining a liberal swinger space with dedicated BDSM areas — broader in scope than most venues in either category.
- BDSM
- Play space
- Strict door
Berlin, Germany
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Berghain
A world-famous techno club with sex-positive spaces attached — not a sex club, and going in expecting one is the classic mistake.
- Club & dancefloor
- Strict door
- Single man
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Club Culture Houze
A smaller, equipment-focused Berlin venue built around actual play rather than dancing — closer to a well-run dungeon than a nightclub.
- BDSM
- Play space
- Strict door
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Insomnia
A long-running Berlin club with an unusually wide range of party formats, from fetish and swinger nights to tantra and cuddle parties.
- BDSM
- First time
- Club & dancefloor
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KitKatClub
Berlin's best-known sex-positive techno club, where the dress code is enforced at the door and street clothes will not get you in.
- BDSM
- First time
- Club & dancefloor
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Lab.oratory
The men-only fetish club in the Berghain complex — a serious, uncompromising space with its own door, its own crowd and its own rules.
- Strict door
- Latex & rubber
- Leather
London, United Kingdom
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Crossbreed
A queer-led Sunday rave with a kink dress code — more dancefloor than dungeon, and one of the friendliest rooms in London.
- First time
- Club & dancefloor
- Latex & rubber
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Klub Verboten
London's most serious modern kink party — Berlin-influenced, consent-focused, and notably stricter about conduct than about who you are.
- BDSM
- First time
- Strict door
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Torture Garden
The UK's largest and longest-running fetish club night — an event rather than a fixed address, with one of the most strictly enforced dress codes anywhere.
- BDSM
- First time
- Formal & elegant